A post by Monsignor Craig Harrison sent me searching for the definition of a friend. One of his best friends passed yesterday. His post sparked a desire to write a blog about leaders being friends. Google defines a true friend is someone who has your back, no matter what. A true friend will always have your best interest at heart. They will never purposely lead you into choices or decisions that aren’t good for you.
I went on to search for the qualities of a good friend and easy to see they are also the desired qualities for a leader.
• Honest. Among the traits of a best friend (leader), honesty is easily one of the most significant. …
• Accepting. Great friends (leaders) are accepting, even when their lives diverge from your own. …
• Low-Maintenance. …
• Non-Judgmental. …
• Loyal. …
• Respectful. …
• Trustworthy.
Could we, Leaders, decide we were going to be friends with our staff?
Could we, Leaders, stop the snarky comments and share the joy such as kids’ graduations, family news, awards won, or Facebook messages.
Could we, Leaders, have each other’s backs.
As a leader, are you a true friend?