Your Attitude Matters

The frustrations that erode happiness comes easy; we can complain, we can be tough, keep your attitude in the right direction and rub off on others. Your attitude matters because people can push the right button at the right time. I don’t know about you; I try not to keep score. So, it’s self-evaluation not trying to keep score when it comes to your attitude. There are times you have to go okay, big sigh, and ask someone else to step in, letting them know that you’re having a challenge. It’s a communication challenge, and you’re not winning—high time for an attitude check.

As leaders, we have to play the hand we’re dealt with a can-do attitude. I got this; we can do this can be easier said than done. Attitude is something that you need to keep in check because it will rub off on others.

 Focus, called concentration, is the responsibility of leaders each day and comfortable when you’re playing a game. But when you’re dealing with people in every walk of life, your focus can sometimes be pushed in different directions. Remember this, though, when you’re giving something half your attention, you will suffer. So, you have to treat your job like it’s your mission in life. Sometimes you have to take the emotional aspect of it; in other words, deal with it quickly and remain focused. Escalating the issue makes it worse. And it may be hard not to escalate things when people aren’t cooperating. Sometimes you may have to stop and ask for mercy! Sometimes we get mixed up in our roles, are we the leader or are we the employee. As a leader, focus equals results.

Urgency, as a leader, you need a sense of urgency. You have to know with every beat of your heart that success is the most important to you. Tough because as catastrophic things happen, when you’re discovering the reason, there is an urgency to fix it before it escalates to another level. When you’re dealing with patients’ lives, there is an urgency to fix it. Behavior issues there is the urgency to fix them. Right now is the importance of value-based care, productivity, premium pay, finding talent, physician and employee engagement, and growth. It’s not going away anytime soon.

The effort takes a hundred percent every time. It may be easy to back off when executives aren’t always talking about it. As a leader committing yourself to the process, what you will learn will result in more success. There may be no employee cheering for you on day by day basis. But seeing the results of your leadership is more critical than a cheering group of employees. There should be nothing you wouldn’t give your employees so they can be successful. Put your best foot forward.

Buy-in is related to effort and focus. It is critical to support your team. It is crucial to identify your strategies, your plans, and your desired outcomes. 

Composure is emotional self-control. What happens when you see red? When you see red, you should take it as a sign to stop. It’s like driving a car when you see red you stop. It doesn’t mean drive fast through the intersection. Do not tolerate a lack of emotional self-control in yourself or others. Keep your poise under pressure; keep your composure. In leadership, anyone can take the lead in becoming a great example. Show your team and give a hundred percent, lead by example. Sometimes, what you do speaks so well, we don’t have to hear what you have to say. Stay with it. Show emotional control. 

Preparation means honing your fundamental leadership skills are and improving your skills for your position. Always be prepared for what will or might not happen. Understanding the situation before you and be prepared for unexpected things to happen can soften the effect of surprise. Try to be ahead of things. You can be ready for everything and prepared for nothing. Proper preparation prevents poor performance.

The practice is more than running scenarios over and over again. It is learning to work as a team; it is learning to work with people in general. It knows what to do, knowing what others are doing, it is learning your position and what to do when the outcomes go right and also means learning what to do when results go wrong. Other people must be on the same journey that you are. Sometimes it may be challenging to get all your team on the same page. Once you get everything dialed in and ready to go, go.

Planning, an average plan executed at an A level versus an A level plan executed at C level, end up with different results. Know your destination and develop your project to develop an A level plan and implement it at an A level.

Winning attitude, as the leader of your team, you need to develop a winning attitude together. Believe in each other, believe you’re going to get the outcomes you have set out to achieve. Encourage one another, be generous with your praise, and thanks. Eliminate excuses; there is no room for reasons when you’re dealing with people’s lives.

Teamwork is critical to patient care. Collaboration is vital when it comes to individual performance and overall performance. A partnership is when leaders, physicians, and employees are working hand-in-hand to get the job done.

Leadership is not an exact science. Having a fantastic group of physicians and staff and having a great plan doesn’t guarantee you success. Quite often, working patient care will break your heart. That is healthcare. But by working hard in using these keys to success can increase your chances. 

You attitude matters

Magnolia Quote

I ran across a magazine called Magnolia while checking out in the grocery line. I rarely pick up magazines though I do read headlines! Here is a direct quote:

“We believe in friendship, in community, and in gathering side by side. We believe in lively conversation. The kind where our differences are realized and met with honor. The kind where we leave having been made better. We believe that when gathered around the table, there’s room enough for all of us, where strangers become friends. And friends become family.”

As leaders, imagine a world where this is what you create.

Pepper – A Leader

My favorite two-year-old is Pepper. In this picture, Pepper is about 18 months old. She is happy to have Nana and Papa push her stroller as long as she has her thumb, favorite toy, and sunglasses. She’s just turned two years old and now sitting in a stroller is not at all what she wants, after all, she is a big girl now. Pepper just turned two.

Pepper is now the leader on our walks, she is the vessel that brings people together, and she inspires to share her experiences. She is happy to expose her messy self, tantrums, and all. She knows genuinely – like only grandparents can do that she is loved. She belongs, she is connected; she is a leader on our walks. Pepper knows the guardrails of walking with Papa and Nana. When she crosses the street, Papa carries her.

Bold with no worries of the world, she is raw and real, she set to be a leader in not just walks, but in life. My wish for her is that as she grows up, she uses her words to build unity.

Your Unique Voice

My friend Alex sends daily snippets challenging thoughts. Today, the message included a picture of a microphone.

“Life has provided you with this. How will you use your unique voice today? What will those around you hear?”

This is where my brain went with this short and powerful image:

How can I use my voice to address what has been tolerable and change to intolerable?

How can I use my voice to achieve and declare a culture change with style?

What is my role in causing things to be different versus responding to different things?

How will I use my voice to move from where we are to where we want to go?

Who are my thought partners? (more coming on thought partners)

Worth Taking a Risk

Is taking risk your default setting? Do you want to tackle the world and see how far you can climb the leadership ladder? If so, it means that you have to learn a lot of lessons along the way. Some will be easy and some hard. Expect to be knocked down more times than you can count. Somewhere along with your leadership journey, people will question your ability to lead.

Make every set back a determination to learn more and to do more growing. Couse correction is just another opportunity to tap into the potential that you haven’t used. Confidence can be built out of the turbulence when you refuse to let fear take over. Embrace failure, when you do fear dissipates and releases its hold over you.
Ask yourself: If you never experience fear, how would you live your life differently?

If you weren’t afraid of potential collateral damage if you could have that extraordinary dream, or you see failure as a teacher and not an enemy, what road would you take? One thing is guaranteed; change will occur. So, take a minute and identify the things in your life that are worth taking a risk.

Disruptive Leadership

Close your eyes and imagine this with me:

There’s a leadership group working their heart out, delivering A-rated patient care for the sixth time in a row. These healthcare works are putting their heart and soul into caring for their community. I guess you could even say they are on fire. The city is unabashedly raising their voices in a response back to the care. It’s a beautiful moment, for sure. It’s Adventist Health.

The significant learning for me through all my years is that once you get clarity about your calling (your purpose in life), worrying about what you just did is less of an issue. I’m clear that a significant part of my calling is to develop the best leadership team and bring the best care and health to my community. That’s who I am; that’s what I do. And I’m ready to lead the way by saying what needs to be told to disrupt what needs to disrupt—even if it makes people uncomfortable. What needs to be disrupted is the health of our community, we have one of the lowest index health scores in California

My challenge to you is to collaborate with me on this disruption journey. None of us can do it alone. We need all kinds of people with different passions and skillsets who can pass the baton along the journey—from the starting pistol to the finish line—until we make the changes.

So, what will be your role here?

What is your leadership story?

What is often missing from our leadership story is the moment of reflective disruption when leaders come together, look in the mirror, and realize what we are doing to ourselves. If we move from self and limited mindset to the system as a whole, we have better awareness, looking at the system as a whole account for the well-being of others and the well-being of the organization.

What we need today is to perform with wisdom. The mind of wisdom includes better relating to others, better relating to the organization as a whole, and better relating to oneself. Take, for example, better relating to the organization as a whole takes us to a place of the most potential: for example, walking in the shoes of employees within your oversight. That’s where you see the problems and the opportunities—bringing others together with shared experiences to become aware, to make sense of what is going on.

For relating to oneself, it means opening the mind, the heart, and the desire. It means empathizing and letting go of the habits of judgment. It may be hard work. It may feel like a loss of control as you move from oneself to the collective view of the organization. Key will be after analyzing the broken systems to impact change, and this takes discipline.

For those who been in leadership for multiple years, understand the quality of results produced depends on the quality of awareness of their people. Results come with consciousness. Sustained results unfold with attention. Take time to observe what you do and how you do it because results require attention. You cannot transform the behavior of your department unless you change the quality of care that you apply to actions, both individually and collectively.

How many times have you heard you must learn from your past? I would argue that you must let go of your past to connect with emerging possibilities. Actualize your highest future potential – and act on what appears. Think about this; we all have habits that keep us operating in the same old way, which drives our behaviors and outcomes. What if you shifted your attention from what you’re trying to avoid to what you want to bring into reality? What if you opened your mind, heart, and will, and then bring in the new reality? The change will take observing, observing, and observing. Here will take reflect on everything you learned as you’ve listened and watched. Change takes determining to become part of the story of the future rather than holding onto the past. Change will take action and feedback.

With an open mind, let go of old habits. With an open heart, empathize and see things through other eyes. Have fun with what new comes in.

My Brains Opinion

The reason this is titled My Brains Opinion is because that that is all we have, our brains opinion. Brain opinions can change with additional information by either reading or listening to other people. If you can truly get that all you have is your brain’s opinion, it is not fact, it is not the truth, it is just your brain’s opinion you are way ahead of the people who are spouting their opinions as if they are facts. For example, in this time of COVID-19, people are judging others for, thinking we should  not open, or we should have never shut down. You should wear a mask, you should not wear a mask; you should open up churches, you should not open up churches. All stem from people’s brain’s opinions. The same thing happens at work people share their brains opinion as if they have all the answers or facts.

Our brains should have different opinions; after all, each brain has different experiences. Our brains can have different opinions and still be a supportive community. We can learn and evolve in our understanding of other brains opinions and be civil.

Leaders Lead vs. Manage

As business owners and leaders, the COVID-19 crisis has provided a rare opportunity—time to think and reflect. Our meetings have upended as we are closely monitoring our situation and huddling with rule makers and enforcers.

Old plans, those set at the end of the year, are obsolete. We are now thinking about recovery plans. Our emails bombarded with advice from consultants and opportunists in a time where there is no “been there, done that.” We are in new territory.

Instead, what we need to do is be the leaders we aspired to be early on in our careers.

We are a mentally fragile and physically exhausted community. We need to acknowledge, candidly, the depth of our challenges and the sacrifices necessary to pull through the COVID-19 pandemic.

Leaders lead vs. manage. Now is the time to look forward because the next set of challenges is on the way. We need to build revenue as we decide how far to cut expenses. Review the overall cost structure and calibrate it for what lies ahead.

As leaders, we need to move quickly and course-correct in real-time, not ruminate for months. We must move at a pace both strategically and financially, that may not be in our nature. We need to prepare, not panic.

We need to take care of our people with greater energy than ever before.

Let’s rise above the chaos and be leaders.

Friend and Leader

A post by Monsignor Craig Harrison sent me searching for the definition of a friend. One of his best friends passed yesterday. His post sparked a desire to write a blog about leaders being friends. Google defines a true friend is someone who has your back, no matter what. A true friend will always have your best interest at heart. They will never purposely lead you into choices or decisions that aren’t good for you.

I went on to search for the qualities of a good friend and easy to see they are also the desired qualities for a leader.

• Honest. Among the traits of a best friend (leader), honesty is easily one of the most significant. …
• Accepting. Great friends (leaders) are accepting, even when their lives diverge from your own. …
• Low-Maintenance. …
• Non-Judgmental. …
• Loyal. …
• Respectful. …
• Trustworthy.

Could we, Leaders, decide we were going to be friends with our staff?

Could we, Leaders, stop the snarky comments and share the joy such as kids’ graduations, family news, awards won, or Facebook messages.

Could we, Leaders, have each other’s backs.

As a leader, are you a true friend?